Loveable Kids

Children are truly creations of God. They are lovely; they are innocent. They don't know how to show differences when developing relationships with others; they equally enjoy every other person's company. And, kids love other kids.

Recently Abigail and I attended a marriage. It was her first visit to a marriage. First she was surprised to see the marriage process. She wondered to see so many people gathered together. She was very excited to meet the attendees. She met a young boy there. He was a few years elder to her, and his name is vicky. She liked him very much and she wanted to play with him. She did not what to play with him, so she always asked him to hold her. He too seemed very fond of her, and stayed close to help her whenever required. I had gone to the marriage alone, and at that time Vicky had helped me a lot - while feeding Abigail, and while putting her to sleep. This was my experience to see my baby so close to others. Till now, she had always wanted me to attend her. Now that she is experiencing rendezvous with others, she is probably getting to understand and trust them, as well. She is growing, and her choices are increasing.

That day with so much excitement around her, Abigail was not ready to sleep, so she played a lot. It was during the parting time that she went to sleep. It was in her sleep that we bade goodbye to the bride, the groom and all close ones, and we started our journey back home. While we were waiting at the railway station, Abigail got up. She was surprised to see the change of venue, and the absence of all the marriage excitement around her. Not even finding Vicky nearby, she started crying after a few minutes of tantrums. Somehow we boarded the train. I tried to control her crying by singing songs, giving toys, introducing other toddler passengers, and by showing the passing sceneries. But none of my efforts were of any use; she kept on crying for over an hour. It was only later that she understood the changes, and accepted the situation. I was very surprised to see her changing phases.

Really children are amazing. Like the fresh drops of rain - clear, clean, untarnished - till they fall and mix with the ocean, after which it is difficult to trace their original attributes. I wish they could retain their innocence as long as possible. Amen!